"I" in me / నా లోని "నేను" - 8
While I was thinking what to say, my wife present beside me told her that “He is interested in social service. Hence he resigned from the Bank job”. By nodding my head in agreement, I said “that life-style not suited to me”.
Questioning of that lady officer and the reply of my wife "in that way" made me feel happy & serene.
Because, my wife was the person, who felt tension and feared about our future, when I announced my resignation decision. It is natural too.
My clear explanations about my plans & precautions for our comfortable life, for the next 10 years and how our son will take care of our remaining life etc., could not make her relax.
All my family members agree with me,,,,
Because of my daring decision taken in the year 2008, now I am healthy and all of us are living happily. Why because, since I was not working at that time, there was no need for our stay in Tirupati. Hence, to help our son, we could shift our family from Tirupati to Chennai. Due to our constant motivation and timely support, he could pass the difficult Chartered Accountant Final exams in the year 2016 and succeeded in getting a job in EY, a reputed multinational firm in Chennai. As he is holding a fat-salaried job, our family friends consulted us for his marriage alliance. We could perform his marriage with a good girl. Now my wife & myself are happily playing with our 4 years old granddaughter.
The purpose behind narrating the above is to show that –
This is a live example explaining how the PAST calculated courageous decisions, resulting in a satisfied PRESENT & future.
I witnessed many such live examples in my life.
1. My younger brother-in-law, who was in a good job at Delhi left it and went to dangerous Afghanistan to work in the Indian Government's job.
2. One of my friends, who held a good position in Railways, left that job and joined ISRO Trivandrum, worked with Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam ji and retired as a Sr. Scientist.
3. Some soft-ware professionals are leaving their fat-salaried jobs and starting their own businesses.
Like this, there are many example
When our daily life is not moving in a satisfying way, then we should try to find what has to be done to make it happy and by adopting it courageously, everything will be alright.
For this, first we need to come out of our comfort-zone. Be ready to face the problems. Because, when we want to do something "different from the routine", then we invariably face problems, criticisms, hurdles, etc.
Actually, when we intend to be involved in any adventure, then due to fear of failure/problems, we may LEAVE the proposal itself before the beginning of it, or postpone the implementation part, with an intention to wait for suitable circumstances.
Instead, by proceeding courageously forward by taking calculated risks, the outcome will definitely give us satisfaction, in due course of time. Just recall your own brave acts of the past to realize this.
I would like to suggest the younger generation …….
If you do not like your present clumsy life-style…
Then think, have two or three plans [in case of failure, next plan can be implemented], take a daring decision and plunge into action by implementing it.
If everything happens as desired then you will feel happy. Otherwise, you will get experience.
With this, your life will move forward with enthusiasm.
If you want to compromise with the present circumstances,
then there will be no change in the boring life with routine schedules.
Our today’s decisions will decide our tomorrow/future.
What do you say, my dear?
While I was thinking what to say, my wife present beside me told her that “He is interested in social service. Hence he resigned from the Bank job”. By nodding my head in agreement, I said “that life-style not suited to me”.
Questioning of that lady officer and the reply of my wife "in that way" made me feel happy & serene.
Because, my wife was the person, who felt tension and feared about our future, when I announced my resignation decision. It is natural too.
My clear explanations about my plans & precautions for our comfortable life, for the next 10 years and how our son will take care of our remaining life etc., could not make her relax.
All my family members agree with me,,,,
Because of my daring decision taken in the year 2008, now I am healthy and all of us are living happily. Why because, since I was not working at that time, there was no need for our stay in Tirupati. Hence, to help our son, we could shift our family from Tirupati to Chennai. Due to our constant motivation and timely support, he could pass the difficult Chartered Accountant Final exams in the year 2016 and succeeded in getting a job in EY, a reputed multinational firm in Chennai. As he is holding a fat-salaried job, our family friends consulted us for his marriage alliance. We could perform his marriage with a good girl. Now my wife & myself are happily playing with our 4 years old granddaughter.
The purpose behind narrating the above is to show that –
This is a live example explaining how the PAST calculated courageous decisions, resulting in a satisfied PRESENT & future.
I witnessed many such live examples in my life.
1. My younger brother-in-law, who was in a good job at Delhi left it and went to dangerous Afghanistan to work in the Indian Government's job.
2. One of my friends, who held a good position in Railways, left that job and joined ISRO Trivandrum, worked with Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam ji and retired as a Sr. Scientist.
3. Some soft-ware professionals are leaving their fat-salaried jobs and starting their own businesses.
Like this, there are many example
When our daily life is not moving in a satisfying way, then we should try to find what has to be done to make it happy and by adopting it courageously, everything will be alright.
For this, first we need to come out of our comfort-zone. Be ready to face the problems. Because, when we want to do something "different from the routine", then we invariably face problems, criticisms, hurdles, etc.
Actually, when we intend to be involved in any adventure, then due to fear of failure/problems, we may LEAVE the proposal itself before the beginning of it, or postpone the implementation part, with an intention to wait for suitable circumstances.
Instead, by proceeding courageously forward by taking calculated risks, the outcome will definitely give us satisfaction, in due course of time. Just recall your own brave acts of the past to realize this.
I would like to suggest the younger generation …….
If you do not like your present clumsy life-style…
Then think, have two or three plans [in case of failure, next plan can be implemented], take a daring decision and plunge into action by implementing it.
If everything happens as desired then you will feel happy. Otherwise, you will get experience.
With this, your life will move forward with enthusiasm.
If you want to compromise with the present circumstances,
then there will be no change in the boring life with routine schedules.
Our today’s decisions will decide our tomorrow/future.
What do you say, my dear?
with regards🙏
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