Whether total SALARY amount is yours?
Hi my dear,
Greetings to you.
As you are aware, in the present generation, both wife & husband are working & earning.
But it was not the case, in many of the families of our elder generations.
Mainly the gents go to work and earn money in the form of monthly salary.
Ladies use to stay in home, take care of the household works and children.
Ladies have no contribution in their earnings.
So the gents are of the opinion that -----
as the salary is their earned money, they have full control on it.
Hence, they can spend their salary amounts as per their own whims & fancies.
Is it justifiable?
To be frank,,,,
the gents could perform their works properly because....... there is someone in the home,
who is taking care of all his needs like arranging food, clothing, entertainment, etc.
So the salary earned by a gent is not belongs to "him" alone, for his efforts.
It also belongs to his wife and other family members, who are contributing their energies.
One of my friend asked me, during a discussion on the above issue that.....
"It is agreed that wife has a role in the husband's earnings. How come the children are contributing to their father's income? Similarly what contribution the other family members are extending?"
My reply to him was,,,,,,
"Children are the main source of happiness, in the family.
Similarly other family members also extend their cooperation in different forms, so as to make the earning person comfortable. This makes his life more easy, meaningful and satisfactory."
In view of the above, whatever the main person of the family earns, all the family members do have their own share in it.
Hence, before spending the amount, the wage earner should consult all his family members and take their consent.
This will lead to happy relationships in the family.
What do you say, my dear??
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Now a days both are earning and spend the earnings with mutual consent.
But I'm unable to understand
the differentiation of earnings as wife's / husband's / son's / daughter's. My father use to manage family with consultation of mother and sisters use to give their salaries before their marriage to our father / mother only. We use to treat it as families money only.
my dear Brother Ramakrishnarao ji.
Lack of confidence on elder's wisdom is the main cause of disintegration of the family members.
With right education and values, we can rebuilt the joint family system.